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I’ve learned my lessons this 2011. 


 

The Real SECRET is that even if there is Imbalance and even if we get StReSsEd!!! We proclaim “I am RICH! :)and it will happen if we stop making EXCUSES.

The Real SECRET is we just need to Say IT! and Don't Miss It!


We will always have the power to create our own stories. I’ve got My 5,000 pesos story and I Promised., This is for you Mommy!!!

We all have a choice to learn now or next time maybe? It is really not for all Nope, not for all...

 
2012 I welcome you with open arms, as I claim I am RICH! :) really I am RICH! :) Say IT!. Say IT!. Say IT!. Let’s Say IT!. together!!!

May we all our dreams come true this prosperous, bountiful and exciting 2012!



-day 18-

Health is Wealth!

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Are you suffering from any kind of sickness?
Is "to be healthy" your goal this year?
Do you want to protect yourself from diseases?

What will you choose?

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Wouldn’t it be nice if these things happen soon?

* Receiving unexpected million dollar check in the mail (yes! your name's written in the check!)
* Receiving titles of your very own houses and lots. (not just two nor three but five!)
* Receiving round trip tickets to countries of your choice! (choose your pick! - Europe, Canada, USA)

BUT, what about if….

… you write a million dollar check to someone you don't even know (yes just a million dollars!)
… you give out five of your houses and lots and name it to your friend's friend or better yet your ex! :)
… you send a New Year’s gift of round trip tickets to countries of choice to someone you met an hour ago, just because...

What will make you feel happier? Being the giver or the receiver?


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A must-read Thomas Willhite's Living Synergistically. This book is published by PSI WORLD. PSI World and its affiliated corporations have been formed to bring peace to the world. We believe that to accomplish our goals, we must first find peace within ourselves as individuals. It is people who bring peace to society, not the reverse. "Living Synergistically" must come from within.
It begins with you... me... and us.
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Choose wisely.

-day 16-


Don't Miss It!


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I love this excerpt from Leo Buscaglia’s Living, Loving and Learning

“…  the people we love aren’t going to be the same all the time and yet we don’t look at each other anymore! We’re so busy doing things that we don’t stop to look at each other.

The faces of the people you love are not going to be the same in the morning, and neither is yours! Don’t miss it!

Really, the saddest phrase to me is hearing someone say, “I only wish I had—“. Well, you know, you can!

Is he sitting next to you now? Look at him. Is she sitting next to you now? Look at her, touch her hand. It isn’t going to feel the same. What are you afraid of?”


What's your EXCUSE?

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Oh, how we love to make excuses!

Nope, not for all...


I believe money flows freely into my life.
I give thanks for a substantial increase in my financial income now!
I am a Money Magnet!
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Let’s get ready for abundance!!!

If you are one of those who don’t really want to be rich and are content with where you are then, I guess this is not for you.

BUT, for the rest of you who want financial freedom and would want to create material wealth and spiritual abundance at the same time, THEN let’s join hands as we journey towards true abundance this 2012!!!

No, this is not a get-rich-quick scheme, not a scam either!

We can all be rich! We just need to change some of our thinking habits. Enlarge our psychological wallet, work with mentors, and prepare ourselves to receive great financial blessings into our lives. 

Click the Truly Rich Club link for more information.

Join the Truly Rich Club


I believe money flows freely into my life.
I give thanks for a substantial increase in my financial income now!
I am a Money Magnet!

Let's all be blessed! 

And so it is.

-day 13-

Love and Light


NAMASTE.

In India, when you meet or say goodbye, you place your palms together and say “Namaste.”
That means, "I honor the place in you where the entire universe resides. 
I honor the place in you, where...if you are in that place in you ... and I am in that place in me...
then there is only one of us."

                                                                                 -Leo Buscaglia
                                                                                                                                             

May Jesus’ birth empowers us to build bridges instead of walls.
May Jesus’ birth excites us to reach more heights.
May Jesus’ birth opens our hearts to live our lives to the fullest.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!


With all our love,

Dennis, Gemma, Mymy and Mimoi

NAMASTE.


-day 11-

I am RICH! :)


I mentioned in my post IMBALANCE how my family and I would travel and gallivant especially this time of the year. 

There were “ants in my pants”! I really didn’t care if I had the money, my thinking was, “I always have more than enough money for what I want and need”, and so off we went! 

This was not only during the “happy holidays” season, mind you. But every time we have school breaks: Thanksgiving break, Spring break, Summer break! I have the “I-am-RICH mentality!”, “God-will-provide mentality”, and “I-deserve-this mentality!”.

It took me 4 years!!! (Well, at least I graduated Summa Cum Laude, this time, lol!) to learn my lesson!

There is nothing wrong with my mentality, right? 

If my thoughts are powerful, then I can make things happen, right? We have all the comforts, we have the money – thanks to my credit cards, and never mind about payments – “God-will-provide!”, right?

Ekkkkk.. Error!

I’m financially stupid! (oops, that’s an understatement, lol!) Handling Finances 101 - I wonder where I was when this was taught in school?!!! BUT was it ever taught in schools??? Did teachers (I am a teacher!!!) ever knew how money worked?!!!

Mmmmm… and so this year, we are under house arrest! hahaha

The funny thing is that the “ants in my pants!” are still here!!! And I am loving being in our fortress!:)

Because of this - BO SANCHEZ’ 8 SECRETS OF THE TRULY RICH.


(double-click the link to know more about it!)

NOW, there is HOPE!!!  

Join me!!! Let’s all be RICH!!!   

and may all our dreams come true - NOW!!! 

NAMASTE.

-day 10-

I Promised.

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Last December 12 at 11:02 pm I made an agreement with myself that I will write everyday for 365 days. I told myself I will write insights on living, loving and learning DAILY. One day at a time, one story at a time, for 365 days.

I now realize, since it’s 12:43 midnight here already, on my 9th day, how hard it is to keep an "agreement". I promise myself I will do it  and this time, I will make my life work, by keeping it.

Difficult, but I know, something good will come out of this, so I write. What will help I know is to manage my time properly and that will be my next goal.

Why do I need to keep this promise when I can always make an excuse? Because, I remember this from OCCI seminars;

Read on.

Your life works exactly to the degree that you keep your agreements. An agreement has integrity because you make it, and for no other reason.

The most profound agreements you make in life are those you make to yourself. The purpose of an agreement is to have life work, that is, to derive satisfaction from it and nurture life itself.

The mind wants what it wants when it wants it and if an agreement gets in the way, the mind will go for breaking the agreement in order to get what it wants. The mind will go for immediate gratification at the expense of long term satisfaction. Only with intention can you deal with your mind. The only way to long term satisfaction in life is keeping of agreements.

KEEP THEM and be responsible for them and your life works. Don’t keep them and your life doesn’t work. It’s that simple. This is not a game you play half way. It’s all or none

CHOOSE.

And so it is.

-Day 9-

My 5,000 pesos story

For the last 2 days I have been engrossed in learning new stuffs! I’ve always considered myself as a lifelong learner, I just need to learn, learn and learn still. To not remain stagnant, to continuously challenge myself to reach new heights, explore new grounds and simply embrace change.

I remember one post I’ve written entitled CHANGE stories and would like to share it with you…
                     
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“An investment in life is an
investment in change…
When you are changing all the time,
you’ve got to continue to keep adjusting to change,
which means that you are going to be constantly  facing new obstacles. 
That’s the joy of living. 
And once you are involved in the process of becoming, 
there is no stopping. 
You’re doomed! You’re gone! 
But what a fantastic journey!”

This was from Leo Buscaglia  the author of the book Living, Loving and Learning. (click his name to know more about it.)

As I despise stability, weird but true, his words continue to ring in my ears.. Change. A beautiful word!

Let me share my story:

After graduating from college, I went back to Lucena City (our hometown) and there I was given an opportunity to teach college students. I did that for 3 years, the force to "move on" was so strong after the end of my 3rd year in teaching  that with only 5000 pesos (about 100USD) loaned from an organization, I traversed Makati (4 hours away from Lucena; Philippines' business capital city) because of my desire to achieve 3 things:

First, to be able to wear a blazer.
Second, to work in an office setting.
Third, to earn more.

I didn't even know what job I was looking for!!! I knew I would change jobs, my point A.. but I did not know what my point B was  - all I knew were my 3 desires and I wanted that to happen!

True enough, after 2 weeks I found myself a job! in Makati! I could wear blazers, plus I could earn more through commissions BUT not in an office setting!!! 

I took the COMPUTER SALESMAN job- and for 2 weeks without any allowance but my mere 5000 pesos - I walked the streets and knocked on doors of every Makati and Mandaluyong households!!! every night for 2 weeks!!! 

Guess, I had a lucky bone because when we had a field trip to Cavite together with eager, fresh, excited rookies in a BUS, all ready to sell of course, I was the only one who was able to BREAK MY ICE and SELL A COMPUTER!

Given a commission of 8000 pesos I gave 3000 pesos to my very shy partner but since she has accompanied me through the whole walking, knocking on doors and selling trip, she deserved to be given.. And off I went job-searching again because I needed my 3 desires achieved! - So with my new 5000 pesos allowance, I landed another job selling COPY MACHINES, this time, I had 10,000 pesos salary and commission if I was able to sell, I could wear a blazer, and it's kind of half office- half field setting. At this job, my clients were all Makati offices.... 

...an opportunity indeed!, so I introduced my machines, and if clients had no desire.. I sold myself! I looked for HR and asked for openings!:) and voila! I found what I was looking for! (After less than 2 months!)

First, to be able to wear a blazer. (Oh yes, everyday!, different colors!)
Second, to work in an office setting.(Yes, Ayala baby!:)
Third, to earn more. (True, true, true, good salary, commission, company benefits and because we have high-end clients, we would treat them out, and I got to eat for free! lol!)

What a 5000 PESOS journey!

“Everything’s a risk. Change and growth take place only when you’re willing to risk and experiment with your own life! And once you begin to become hooked on risk, your whole life changes"!!! Soooooo true!

To where I am now, I still seek for change, there will always be "point A to point B".. I guess it’s in my soul, to simply yearn and become… The only prerequisite to all these are AWARENESS and ACKNOWLEDGMENT of WHAT YOU WANT and WHAT YOU DREAM OF.

Unlike the law of inertia, that an object remains at rest unless given motion, here you do all, you be all, you make things happen! And then it will happen!

But then again, who am I to teach, lol. A person who wants to learn will learn, just as a person who wants his/her dreams achieved will achieve, at their own time and season! Right?

Embrace change, and try not to put emotional attachments to things.. and then the thought of what more if the one lost is a loved one…. And you’d say better not ponder on it.. But then again, why not???

Leo Buscaglia wrote about Death too he's telling us not to waste time… And live every moment – every God-given moment –as we attempt to know life.

WOW!.. I have none to tell, but to date I have moved on.. CHANGE voila! and eager once more to put on as much memories as I can to this so called life. :)

What about you? How willing are you to CHANGE?
 
Honestly, it's all a matter of right timing! 

When the student is ready, the teacher will appear! If you want to invest your Php5000.00, the best way to go is to educate yourself.

Instead of being lazy, watching TV all day, or liking pictures in Facebook day in and out... spend part of your time productively!


Do something you've never done before.. or maybe, do it again the 2nd time around, the right way!... and never ever give up!!! just do it whatever it takes!

I wish you all the best.

-day 6/7- Christmas party excuse?

Good Friends


Good Friends are God’s way of proving… 

Life is a rainbow!

We may have different points of views, different rules in how we play the game of life, different approaches in how we handle situations – and because of these- there will always be new things to emulate and learn from!

Life is never boring!



It is a joy to be with “d’ chenezes”. 

Life in LCNHS will never be the same without them. Yes, we are public high school teachers and we love what we do! 



We strive to excel, we try to bring out the best in our students and we enjoy moments with each other, as we enjoy God’s life!



Respect for each one’s uniqueness, I would say is the apt reason why after all these time.. we are friends..

Indeed, Good Friends are God’s way of proving  

He loves us so much!
                                                                                                    
Merry Christmas everyone! :) 


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written for LCNHS Chenezesss
June 27, 2007

The Real SECRET




“Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you” Matthew 6:33


This is for you Mommy!!!



“Wake up!!! Time to wake up! Mang Terio is here already! You all need to wake up!!!” I remember Mommy shouting at us during our school years! Funny, but she did that every morning and we never seemed to learn and get tired of it (it has become a habit- after a while, we needed the "shout" to wake up! lol!). She’s our time element!





Mommy would always tell us to do well in our studies, that education would be the only inheritance we would get from them – and that inheritance would never be taken away from us.  She’d always tell us that her father, our grandfather, would encourage her to just do her best. She said a 75% grade was A-OK, at least she was able to pass! He never discouraged her growing up. He was always her number one fan! Just like how she has been to us, during our school days and even up to now. She would always make sure we got something for trying our best, even a peso! Giving us something was her way of encouraging us, especially if we got high grades in our tests and report cards.  She’s proud we got 75% and especially if higher! We were happy to get the money too! She's our #1 supporter! 



Mommy was never an employee. She's a self-made woman. She’d tell us that at a young age, she was able to open up her own parlor business so she could attend college. After that, there were offers for her to work in an office but she declined. She said you’re freer and could earn so much more if you own a business than being in the office. During our growing years, she put up her own sewing business – made-to-order curtains, pillow sheets and bed sheets. She joined Tupperware and became top sales agent. She’s a go-getter!




Mommy was an OFW wife. Daddy went to Saudi Arabia during our school years just so we could attend a private school. I was a product of Catholic private school and university all the way! Thanks to how she budgeted the money from daddy and from her own little businesses. Through her effort and keen mind, she went ahead on her own and loaned from a bank to purchase our house and lot because she didn't want to waste money renting anymore. She made sure there was food in the table, bills were paid and we got our allowances and project fees on time. She’s a very good financial manager! 


She’s prayerful, trusting and positive believer. She said in times when she needed help and support, even up to now, she would and will just go to the church and pray. God was and still is her best friend.  Up to now, nothing will bring her down or if even if there is, she handled and continues to handle it well - God is with her. She's got this BIG FAITH. She knows that whatever her mind can conceive, she will achieve! She's our Mommy! 






Mommy's one-of-a-kind! We would never have gotten this far had it not been for her and her one-of-a-kind caring, nurturing, protecting, smart and loving way. 

Today (Dec. 16) she celebrates her (she said) 70th birthday (her age is always a guessing game) and hopes that she'll have a great one!
Happy Birthday Mommy!!! We miss you and Daddy so much! Enjoy your birthday!!!


                                                                                                     *****

To family, relatives and friends:
Please drop by our house in Lucena tomorrow, Dec. 17 (Saturday) in the afternoon to celebrate her birthday! Thank You! 

-Day 4-

Wanted



Here goes... a 61 year old American teacher-magician is asking me to find him a girlfriend in the Philippines.

Qualifications:
40-50 years of age
beautiful
nice to be with
friendly

He said he's very willing to visit whoever she is in the Philippines and that he'll do whatever it takes to bring whoever she is here in the US. He wants to correspond via email, mail, phone calls...

Just today, he gave me $20.00 bill (and of course I turned it down! LOL!) because he wants me to expedite the process of searching. HAHAHA

So if you are reading this and you qualify OR if you know some who knows someone who is looking, available, and eager to come here. Then, you know who to contact!:)

Promise.. he's serious about this!

Maybe tomorrow, he'll double the $20.00 hahaha

Sweet dreams!:)


-Day 3-

180 degree

















“Lord, give me a boyfriend, pleaseeeeeeee….”

I was 15 then and I still had no boyfriend.

I belonged to NBSB club – No Boyfriend Since Birth! My life was going well though, I was getting A’s in school, and yes, I had boys as friends but never a boyfriend!!!

Oh I had fun memories with boys.. I had this neighbor who was my long time crush, he was just so good-looking.. I really liked him!!! So, I went to this very small store in our subdivision, and as I was walking, minding my business, singing and humming.and then I looked up.. OMG, my long time crush was staring at me with smile on his face.. my heart thumped so fast that when I took another step towards him, my slipper slipped off my feet!!! I was so embarrassed, but to show him how confident I was, I continued singing and humming as I went back to get my slippers! :0

One more, when I was a freshman in high school, I met this senior guy, that every time he’d see me, he’d tease me to his friend, who was also a senior! There was this one time when I was in the playground playing in the monkey bars (hey, I was only 13 then, I could play!) and then he saw me and from afar shouted ‘Gemmmaaaaaa!! (that’s my name), here’s ‘theboyyyyy’!!!!’ and the whole senior class just roared in laughter!!!! I was soooooo embarrassed that I was not sure anymore how I handled the situation! :0

Having been educated in a Catholic private school my whole life, I was brought into thinking that girls could only wait, until a guy courts you, then all you have to do is wait.

So I waited.. and waited… and waited… I graduated high school and college and I still waited..

But I was proactive too, I looked out for guys everywhere, in the public bus, in the library, in the church, in the classroom, in the cafeteria, in the restaurants. I started conversations, even befriended them.. but still nada…

What was worst was when I attended family gatherings, ask who was the center of attention (or so I thought)? Yeah.. ME!! "Gemma, you mean to say you still have no boyfriend yet?"; "Gemma, you are getting old, you should look for a man already"; "Gemma, it’s about time"… over and over and over; year after year after year…

Fed up with how I perceived people as controlling me. I made a decision. I turned around.. 180 degree turn and learned my lesson… What’s the lesson? Mmmmm.. what’s the lesson? good question..

The lesson: To never GIVE UP! I continued to hope and continued to pray… “Lord…” but at the same time, I prepared myself emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually,,, I buried myself in self-help books ‘How to find a man in 10 days” or something of that sort (lol), I attended leadership training seminars (I could find him there right?).. I exercised (nothing beats a sexy body! lol!) I became myself… man should love me for who I am and what not (right?) .. and I continued to imagine and declared to the Universe what I want.

Well, there’s a truth in the saying, when it rains, it pours! Because it did pour, at that time Guy #1, Guy #2, Guy #3, did come..

And then I was in control.. who to choose.. mmm but that's another story…

Well, I am sorry but I totally disagree with Jerry Mcguire’s “you complete me”. No, no, no, no.. no one completes you but you. You are already complete!

I may have been pressured to find a boyfriend in my 20′s because of media and the world howling at me that it was the right thing to do. It took me so long to realize that no one completes me but me, I may be single then, but I was complete and I need to make sure I am whole first before going into a relationship.. otherwise, it’ll be a mess .

Sad, but the truth is we so hate waiting that most of us just jump at every relationship and just easily open our hearts to the first guy who says I love you, or to the guy who buys us this or buys us that… sad..

I’ll forever be grateful to all my friends, family and relatives for pushing me the way they did. I will not have become the person that I am now, without the fun and the sad times..

Waiting did work out for me. I waited for a year… errr.. yearsss!!!, and that waiting period made me become stronger, learned and capable of handling relationships. Yes, building relationship is hard work because it involves decision and commitment.

Maybe God willed for me to wait that long, to preserve myself to the person that He prepared for me.

In the end, I didn’t actually find him, you know… my boyfriend-turned-husband found me. All in due time, all in His time and all because of the 180 degree turn. :)

Maria Gemma Hilotin, EzineArticles Basic PLUS Author

StReSsEd!!!



“I realize that I will never have control of what other people think of me, what they say about me or what other people told them about me… all these, I have no control of BUT, I can control ME. People will always have something to say, but at the end of the day, what matters is what I am saying to myself! People may pressure me because, I do not conform to their social ways, but that doesn’t matter, for as long as I know who I am and what direction I am going, then I am fine.”

Or am I?

There are many forms of stress. The one stress that is beyond our control and that we shouldn’t even try to control is the behavior of other people. Particularly, people who back fight, people who falsely accuse you, or people who just want to make you feel bad.

I learned early on that we cannot please everybody. There will always be people who are for us, and against us, and along the way lessons will be learned. I held on to that.

My funny story was that yesterday, my boss came to tell me that a principal called for him telling him about an issue on me. The head teacher reported that the new teacher told her that I declared that I am her boss and that even she, the head teacher, is under me! – Wow! A real made up story coming from a supposed to be professional! There’s no truth to it at all!!

Never in my wildest dream would there be a need for that! I mean, if I’m the real boss, my subordinates would have already known right?! It makes no sense! First and foremost, if I did say it, what value will it give me, will it increase my paycheck? no, right? Second of all, what will power- tripping do to me if my job is simply to support them with their work? and Third of all, why would she lie? why would the new teacher put words into my mouth and accuse me of something I didn’t even say?!!!

Some would flare up knowing that and I did too.. so I told my boss what happened and what didn’t happen the day I met with the new teacher, who was with us the whole time and told him my story. I even asked permission to send an email to the head teacher who’s been lied to and/or meet with everybody, just so everything will be cleared. I even proposed to my boss to hear the new teacher’s side just so he is seeing the two sides of a coin.. No Fears!

People handle stress differently. In the old days, I would have been confrontational about it. This time, I’ve decided on a more responsible way of doing things, follow my boss. He told me to let it be. He said, I have done nothing wrong so there is no need for further response. It is a new direction for me, the road less traveled, and decided to go for it. Not to control the uncontrollable. I let it be.

So today, I greeted my boss, Good morning Mr., from the boss, the boss speaks and had a laugh about it, and he told me the new teacher is now looking for another job.. too early a karma.

I’m still pondering on where the new teacher is coming from, but instead of looking at it in the victim mode, I didn’t, you see- it’s all good in the end, for truly, I’m the boss. I am the boss of my own thoughts. I am the boss of my own creative world. I control me. I am unique and I am incomparable. I lead me to my heart’s desires.

I have no control of what people may think, say, or do behind my back. For as long as I am at peace with how I treat people and myself, for as long as I know who I am and what direction I am going then I’m good.

Finally, you know what, maybe, she’s not telling lies after all, because, who knows, she may be prophesying and I’ll really become the head teacher’s boss someday! How fun would that be? :)

And so it is.

Not too late…

So, I went to the schools… and in one of the schools, I met an active 88 year-old Special Education Teacher. 88 years old!!!!!!

A lot of things ran through my mind. Ok, she’s 88. She still teaches… BUT – What about technology? What about making IEPs (Individualized Education Plan)??? Uh oh.

So I hugged her. I told her we need to do a lot of things this year. I posted all the pertinent materials on her cabinet. I taught her what to do. I informed her, we will do this, one step at a time! Guess what I found out- she’s a lot of fun! for her age!


After teaching her on how to do the 1st page of the IEP, she asked me, “alright, now answer me, What are gerunds? What are participial adjectives?” I laughed, hard! She told me, “see there a lot of things that I know, and I am sure you know a lot of things too. So as you teach me I will review you with English matters, is that a deal?”

And there began our journey. IEP data collection – she does the errands, the testing, the interviewing, I make her write the meat of the IEP, I help her with the rest. So far, so good.

Seeing her do all these things, watching her walk, hearing her teach, listening to her funny statements and feeling her presence in the room, made me realize a lot of things about life.

Age doesn’t matter. She said when she turned 70 she just accepted things. She likes everyone. She understands people’s uniqueness and she just lives her life one day at a time.

I asked her ” Why are you still here in school?”, she answered, ” Why not? What will I do at home, my husband’s dead!”. Mmmm, makes sense. She continued, “I would have been traveling too, but I don’t want to travel alone. I like gardening…” I interrupted, “then go gardening!”, she continued, “No, I don’t want to do gardening alone!”, and deducted, nope, she’s not going anywhere.

We can keep going if we want to. Retirement doesn’t and shouldn’t stop us. I can continue to love working, continue to use my brain, remain active and alive for as long as I want to. For as long as I want to.

The teacher’s 88 and she’s got a lot of special education and English resource matters going for her. She complains not. She is determined. And never mind if she is 88, I don’t discriminate. I get inspired. Really!

Health is wealth. The gift of health is I think what I’ll be praying for when I get to her age. At her age, she still enjoys what she can. At her age, she still enjoys life.

No one is too old to learn new technology. At 88 years old, she’s got FB!!! Hahaha, joke! But yes, she remembers her user id and password in almost all the websites that she needs to be using, she knows her Microsoft Office basics and yes she can even communicate via email!

Love what you do. She stopped me one time and told me, “Maria, I really want to make sure I am on time, SO, if you want, I can work with you after school and during weekends… Actually tomorrow, Saturday, I will be here in school to work on things!” Mmmm… still thinking if that’s too much love of work? or that at her age there isn’t much “life” she can afford to do?

At this time, though I’m still puzzled why she chose to be where she at now, I respect her. I respect her choices and how up to this time, she continues to be giving of her time, talent and skills. For as long as teaching makes her alive and happy then so be it.

The challenge now is, if she can do it at her AGE, then I ______________….

And so it is..


A Knowing…

I live my life knowing that my prayers are already answered. What about you? Do you live your life knowing that your prayers are already answered?

This is a bold statement that I am trying to ingest as I write. To live my life knowing my prayers have already been answered. A great faith and yet it feels scary. Scary because it is not human-like. It seems that 100% there is nothing to worry about, nothing to fear, nothing to be scared of, nothing to even think about but my wants, needs, dreams and goals. A perfect statement?

So when I say I live my life knowing my prayers are already answered. What I am actually telling myself are three things:

First thing is Let Go and Let God.

To let go of my need to force things to happen. To let go of worries, fears, and just be like the birds in the skies free as they just let it be. To just give it up and Let God take control.

It’s also easy to say but sometimes it’s pretty difficult to put into action. But then say, we have a problem, sometimes, after all the effort, the best way really to solve it is to give it up – because the more we worry about it, the more energy we put into it which makes it alive.

When we let go and Let God take control, it’s like we do everything in our power first and then we take a back seat and let God take the wheel to drive our lives.

Second thing is To think is to Create.

MmmmThere is something about our way of thinking. Our thoughts create. Whatever our thoughts are happens. That’s why there is a saying, be careful what you think of or wish for, it comes true. Our thoughts reap results- positive or negative. Positive thinking doesn’t offer guarantees but it gives us the best chance. Positive thinkers think about what’s possible. In concentrating on the possibilities, we make things happen.

Being positive for a day won’t do it. Strengthening your mind is like strengthening your body. If we do twenty push-ups, and then race over to the mirror, we won’t see any difference. Similarly, if we think positive for 24 hours, we will see a little difference. But discipline our thinking for a few months and we will see even bigger changes in our lives than we’ll ever see at the gym. Cleaning up our thinking is a life long work. It is huge! It’s made even harder because, often, we don’t even know we are being negative when we’re being negative.

If we want to check our thinking, check our life. Our prosperity, happiness and the quality of our relationships, even our health are a reflection of our most common conscious thoughts.

Third thing is To be at Peace…

Being at peace. Desiderata. Go placidly amidst the noise and haste and remember what peace there maybe in silence… Therefore be at peace with God.. whatever you conceive Him to be.. and whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life..keep peace in your soul.

You see when I was young, I have always believed that there are only purposes made in heaven, there is no such thing as coincidence.. I have always believed at the same time that life only gives lessons for me to learn and when I get to learn the lesson, I move on. If not life ,will continue to give the same tests but in different shade, color, form, occasion and setting.. yet the same lesson. So my thinking is that there are really no problems, because there are solutions. I have always thought of a glass as half full than half empty.

I live my life knowing my prayers are already answered. I will let this be my shout-out everyday. My daily affirmation. There’s nothing to lose but everything to gain. I live my life knowing my prayers are already answered, and without a doubt, it will be.

Everyone, let’s live our lives knowing that our prayers are already answered that way we will learn to let go and let God, create positive things and keep peace in our soul.

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